It is always easier to push things under the carpet, bury it in denial, or just ignore it hoping the problem will go away. It may do for a while, but it will always come back till it is resolved.
The pattern of the same thing happening again and again will keep repeating till we acknowledge the problem, deal with it, resolve it and let it go. It can be in things that we know need to be done or dealt with, but we don't because of fear holding us back. Or it may be patterns that keep repeating in our life and we wonder why the same things keep happening to us.
The only way to move forward is by dealing with the core issue - the first instance in our life when something has happened and then sorting out the problem from there. It may involve feeling all the old emotions and going under for a time, but you can be sure that if you truly deal with it and release it, it will not come back.
Sometimes we unconsciously bury issues deep within and then carry on for ages thinking that we have dealt with the issues, believing that all is well. Until one day everything comes crashing down and we then say "the same thing has happened again, it must be that I am destined to have these in my life". The truth is that the issue came back because it was not dealt with and released the first time.
Acknowledging and identifying is the first step, but it takes great courage to go back into a negative situation with the threat of all falling apart again to actually let it go. That is where the fear stops us in most cases and it takes a major catastrophic event to happen for us to actually deal with it. The major catastrophic event occurs only because of our resistance to dealing with the issue.
So in every way it is better to undergo the difficulty in dealing with the issue right now than leave it unresolved for it to hit us hard in the face when we least expect it.
This is taking the bull by its horns, holding on and releasing it when everything is resolved.
Have a blessed day
In Love and Lifht
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